pg Windows to PG FreeBSD

hi

I have one install of postgresql in Windows, and a second in FreeBSD. Both
are the 8.4 version
I am trying to connect from the windows install to the FreeBSD server
install

psql -h 10.10.90.125 -U myUser -d template1

and the result is:

"Could not connect to server connection refused....is the server running on
host .... and accepting tcp/ip connections on port 5432?"

I searched in severa places, one of them is:

http://www.postgresql.org/docs/8.3/static/server-start.html

http://www.postgresql.org/docs/8.2/static/auth-pg-hba-conf.html

http://www.postgresql.org/docs/8.4/static/runtime-config-connection.html

http://www.cyberciti.biz/tips/postgres-allow-remote-access-tcp-connection.html

in addition to the manual,

I do not have the same problem when I try a Windows to Windows connection.

I already placed the "*" in the listen_addresses option and "host all all
10.10.90.0/24 trust".

I'm not sure what to do now, again, windows to windows there is no problem,

thanks