Postgresql Configutation and overflow

Good day,

I have been reading about the configuration of postgresql, but I have a
server who does not give me the performance that should. The tables are
indexed and made vacuum regularly, i monitor with top, ps and
pg_stat_activity and when i checked was slow without a heavy load overage.

Before, the server reached 2000 connections to postgresql (with
max_connections=3000 in it for future workflow).

I divided the load with another server for better performance, and now reach
500 connections, but yet is overflow.

My question is about how much memory should i configure in shared_buffers
and effective_cache_size.

Features:

- 4 Processsors Intel Xeon Dual 3.0Ghz
- 12 GB RAM
- 2 discos en RAID 1 for OS
- 4 discs RAID 5 for DB
- S.O Slackware 11.0 Linux 2.6.17.7
- Postgres 8.1.4

=====In internet i found this:

Tuning PostgreSQL for performance
2 Some basic parameters
2.1 Shared buffers

# Start at 4MB (512) for a workstation
# Medium size data set and 256-512MB available RAM: 16-32MB (2048-4096)
# Large dataset and lots of available RAM (1-4GB): 64-256MB (8192-32768)
======

My postgresql.conf configuration is:

#---------------------------------------------------------------------------
# FILE LOCATIONS
#---------------------------------------------------------------------------

# The default values of these variables are driven from the -D command line
# switch or PGDATA environment variable, represented here as ConfigDir.

#data_directory = 'ConfigDir' # use data in another directory
#hba_file = 'ConfigDir/pg_hba.conf' # host-based authentication file
#ident_file = 'ConfigDir/pg_ident.conf' # IDENT configuration file

# If external_pid_file is not explicitly set, no extra pid file is written.
#external_pid_file = '(none)' # write an extra pid file

#---------------------------------------------------------------------------
# CONNECTIONS AND AUTHENTICATION
#---------------------------------------------------------------------------

# - Connection Settings -

listen_addresses = '*' # what IP address(es) to listen on;
# comma-separated list of addresses;
# defaults to 'localhost', '*' = all
port = 5432
max_connections = 3000
# note: increasing max_connections costs ~400 bytes of shared memory per
# connection slot, plus lock space (see max_locks_per_transaction). You
# might also need to raise shared_buffers to support more connections.
#superuser_reserved_connections = 2
#unix_socket_directory = ''
#unix_socket_group = ''
#unix_socket_permissions = 0777 # octal
#bonjour_name = '' # defaults to the computer name

#---------------------------------------------------------------------------
# RESOURCE USAGE (except WAL)
#---------------------------------------------------------------------------

# - Memory -

shared_buffers = 81920 # min 16 or max_connections*2, 8KB each
temp_buffers = 5000 # min 100, 8KB each
max_prepared_transactions = 1000 # can be 0 or more

# note: increasing max_prepared_transactions costs ~600 bytes of shared
memory

# per transaction slot, plus lock space (see max_locks_per_transaction).
work_mem = 10240 # min 64, size in KB
maintenance_work_mem = 253952 # min 1024, size in KB
max_stack_depth = 4096 # min 100, size in KB

# - Free Space Map -

#max_fsm_pages = 20000 # min max_fsm_relations*16, 6 bytes each
#max_fsm_relations = 1000 # min 100, ~70 bytes each

# - Kernel Resource Usage -

#max_files_per_process = 1000 # min 25
#preload_libraries = ''

# - Cost-Based Vacuum Delay -

#vacuum_cost_delay = 0 # 0-1000 milliseconds
#vacuum_cost_page_hit = 1 # 0-10000 credits
#vacuum_cost_page_miss = 10 # 0-10000 credits
#vacuum_cost_page_dirty = 20 # 0-10000 credits
#vacuum_cost_limit = 200 # 0-10000 credits

# - Background writer -

#bgwriter_delay = 200 # 10-10000 milliseconds between rounds
#bgwriter_lru_percent = 1.0 # 0-100% of LRU buffers scanned/round
#bgwriter_lru_maxpages = 5 # 0-1000 buffers max written/round
#bgwriter_all_percent = 0.333 # 0-100% of all buffers scanned/round
#bgwriter_all_maxpages = 5 # 0-1000 buffers max written/round

#---------------------------------------------------------------------------
# WRITE AHEAD LOG
#---------------------------------------------------------------------------

# - Settings -

#fsync = on # turns forced synchronization on or off
#wal_sync_method = fsync # the default is the first option
# supported by the operating system:
# open_datasync
# fdatasync
# fsync
# fsync_writethrough
# open_sync
#full_page_writes = on # recover from partial page writes
#wal_buffers = 8 # min 4, 8KB each
#commit_delay = 0 # range 0-100000, in microseconds
#commit_siblings = 5 # range 1-1000

# - Checkpoints -

checkpoint_segments = 20 # in logfile segments, min 1, 16MB each
#checkpoint_timeout = 300 # range 30-3600, in seconds
#checkpoint_warning = 30 # in seconds, 0 is off

# - Archiving -

#archive_command = '' # command to use to archive a logfile
# segment

#---------------------------------------------------------------------------
# QUERY TUNING
#---------------------------------------------------------------------------

# - Planner Method Configuration -

#enable_bitmapscan = on
#enable_hashagg = on
#enable_hashjoin = on
#enable_indexscan = on
#enable_mergejoin = on
enable_nestloop = off
enable_seqscan = off
#enable_sort = on
#enable_tidscan = on

# - Planner Cost Constants -

effective_cache_size = 65536 # typically 8KB each
#random_page_cost = 4 # units are one sequential page fetch
# cost
#cpu_tuple_cost = 0.01 # (same)
#cpu_index_tuple_cost = 0.001 # (same)
#cpu_operator_cost = 0.0025 # (same)

the sysctl.conf

kernel.shmmax = 970170573
kernel.shmall = 970170573
kernel.sem = 400 42000 32 1024
vm.overcommit_memory = 2

=========The configuration is correct?=======

If you can help me i will be pleased, thanks.