not really, as it depends on pretty much both tables.
This is where de-normalization would actually makes sens, except for
that it wouldn't - because it will badly effect all my other queries
(joining on varchar is so slow).
I could drop FK, and replace that with my own trigger(s), but that's a
lot of mess.
Other idea, is to maintain some sort of a temp table that will hold
all names deleted, and use it. But still, not very nice nor obviuos.
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GJ