DSA_ALLOC_NO_OOM doesn't work

If you call dsa_allocate_extended(DSA_ALLOC_NO_OOM), it will still
ereport an error if you run out of space (originally reported at [0]).

Attached patch adds code to test_dsa.c to demonstrate that:

postgres=# select test_dsa_basic();
ERROR: could not resize shared memory segment "/PostgreSQL.1312700148"
to 1075843072 bytes: No space left on device

[0] https://github.com/pgvector/pgvector/issues/434#issuecomment-1912744489

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Heikki Linnakangas
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