Convert node test compile-time settings into run-time parameters

This patch converts the compile-time settings

COPY_PARSE_PLAN_TREES
WRITE_READ_PARSE_PLAN_TREES
RAW_EXPRESSION_COVERAGE_TEST

into run-time parameters

debug_copy_parse_plan_trees
debug_write_read_parse_plan_trees
debug_raw_expression_coverage_test

They can be activated for tests using PG_TEST_INITDB_EXTRA_OPTS.

The effect is the same, but now you don't need to recompile in order to
use these checks.

The compile-time symbols are kept for build farm compatibility, but they
now just determine the default value of the run-time settings.

Possible concerns:

- Performance? Looking for example at pg_parse_query() and its
siblings, they also check for other debugging settings like
log_parser_stats in the main code path, so it doesn't seem to be a concern.

- Access control? I have these settings as PGC_USERSET for now. Maybe
they should be PGC_SUSET?

Another thought: Do we really need three separate settings?